no-pictures: update
Signed-off-by: Maxime “pep” Buquet <pep@bouah.net>
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@ -21,7 +21,7 @@ take pictures of me.
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And despite saying all that, people kept teasing me about it, while some would
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plainly ignore my requests and take pictures anyway.
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When somebody insists, or asks why -- not that I mind having this discussion
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When somebody insists or asks why -- not that I mind having this discussion
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when they're not pointing a camera to my face -- all I hear is society
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reminding me that not wanting to appear on pictures isn't "normal".
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@ -30,18 +30,8 @@ isn't that I am saying no, it's that nobody hears that I am saying no. What we
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really should be asking is why am I compelled to justify this behaviour for
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others to accept it, and not for others to respect me saying "no".
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**Consent**, to name it, is to ask for a freely given "yes", and not to assume.
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**Consent**, to name it, is to ask for a freely given "yes".
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*Note that I am specifically talking about photographs here, which is an
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issue I've had. I am sure non-able/white/cis/males have had many other
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consent-related issues, and I can only sympathize.*
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<!-- « J'ai le droit de dire non ? »
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Dans le cas où un premier « non » est évoqué et la personne en face pousse et
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nous met plein de pression sociale dans la figure.
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Parce qu'on peut donner des raisons et expliquer, mais la vraie problématique
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ne se pose pas sur pourquoi est-ce qu'on dit non. Mais sur le fait qu'il n'est
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pas écouté.
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Donc ça pourrait être intéressant non pas de justifier ce refus, et de donner
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une raison suffisante pour que l'autre l'accepte. Mais lui faire se rappeler
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que c'est notre droit de refuser et que son devoir c'est d'écouter. -->
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